Ida

English

I can’t say that I am looking for anything deep. Right now, I’d say I’m looking to make a friend. Definitely someone who is mature, aware, and sure of himself, and is always curious about life and what he can offer TO it (not ALWAYS the other way around).

Please… because I am not looking specifically for love, don’t take that as an invitation for a smash and pass, a Netflix and Chill, or something super casual and/or unmeaningful. No… I believe that if something of real substance is present in connecting and conversing with a person, all else will naturally fall into place. I’m not here to force the hand of nature. I just want to experience the “right” vibe and connection.

From BK… but I live in FL… thinking about moving back home to NJ. Time will soon reveal… I have 3 children under 18 and I will not feel bad if you are not interested on the basis of that. I lived my life and enjoyed my youth and when I was “ready” I expanded my family. I’m obviously on here because that didn’t work out. 🥴 I don’t need a step dad for my kids and I don’t need a sponsor for myself. I am self-sufficient and grounded within my career and life goals. I’m GOOD over here. 😊 I am also grown and I still have LIFE in me and don’t mind sharing a little bit of my light and vibrancy with someone who is like-minded.

I am a sapiosexual. I am very much attracted to an intelligent, introspective, mindful, and articulate man.

At my age, I’d like to say that can read energy and I am not one to wait for red flags to turn green (thanks to life’s experiences). 🙏🏾 I believe no one likes to waste their time … it’s just too expensive to gamble with. I respect time and I appreciate when someone steps into my square keeping that in mind.

All else can be expounded on… depends on your initial approach. That said, I do not respond to just “hi” or “hello” messages. We are all grown, educated, and have been in relationships before this forum. Just come correct.

Respectfully, I’m not here for pressure energy. A friend, a vibe, maybe a friendly first date with some great conversation. Let’s see what goes from there. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Virgo

Average

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Brown

African American

Divorced

Yes - At Home

No

Smile

Other

Dark Brown

No pets

Yes

Some College

Full-time

Administrative / Management

Legal Administrative Assistant

With Kid(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Observant, Friendly

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

This would have to depend on what is going on at the time of planning a first date.

Skydiving

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Christian

Take care of home, myself, my mental/emptional/financial well-being, be available to those who are closest to me, and to be of service to my community.

Friendly, Goofy

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Horror, Thriller

Country, Rap, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel

Anything that will bring joy and fulfillment... I leave the endless possibilities of what that could be wide open.

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Read Bio please.

Friend